For the Sincere Sub, Slave, Masochist; This is for You... *** UPDATE *** I have added information at the end of the post which may be helpful to you. *** OK. Ready? Here we go...



I value Loyalty and Obedience above all other things.



For me, BDSM is 95% emotional and intellectual and only 5% physical. Sure, the physical and sexual is wonderful and explosive... but only when the mental and emotional elements are right. People who can't get past the sexual aspects of BDSM bore me silly, and miss out on the more subtle pleasures of the lifestyle.



I do not want a mindless zombie as a companion. I require much more intellectual and emotional stimulation than that. I never understand these guys who are content with beating the brain and spirit out of their slave; way to go, you made a boring-ass robot. Congratulations. Enjoy. My companion has to be a hell of a lot more exceptional than that.



That being said, I do not negotiate, justify, explain, defend, rationalize, nor compromise on my decisions, once I have reached them. To do so is poor leadership, weakness, and not worthy of the consideration I owe my slave. Does that mean you cannot ask questions? No way. Questions are fine. Questioning authority is not.



I am a total Alpha Male. It is not a role I take on; it really is who I am. It applies to everything, inside the lifestyle and out. Keeping that in mind, I do not have to go around beating my chest and roaring about how dominant I am. Guys who do that, usually aren't; they are almost always immature and insecure wannabes.



I am a sadist. Your pain gives me pleasure. Me enjoying your pain, does not mean I do not like you, nor that I am displeased with you. On the contrary, I do not enjoy it unless I adore you. (Figure that one out, Freud!) Little girls who cannot make the distinction between being the object of my sadism, and my actual displeasure, never work out.



Related to me being a sadist - I am *NOT* a bully nor an asshole. Submission can't be claimed. It is offered. Nobody can ever make you do something. You make yourself - even when it is something you do not wish to do.



I love humiliation and degradation. Again, that does not mean I do not like you, but rather the opposite. And I am no misogynist; I love women in general, and I adore my slave in particular. Don't ask me to explain the apparent contradiction, because I can't.



What am I into... how about if I start with what I am not into? No kids, no animals. Not into scat or pee, but have accommodated companions who enjoy it in the past. Icky to me, but I also think we should indulge our friends on things which are not utterly repugnant to us.



I no longer have an "absolute" list of limits, as I really try to keep an open mind. As long as there are no kids and no inter-species stuff I will at least consider it. I may say "NO!", but I will think about it first.



Anyone can submit to things they wish to do anyway. The real measure of submission, is submitting to the things you do NOT wish to do. Again, I am not going to bully anyone, scream, have a tantrum, any of that; when a companion chooses not to submit, I simply release them. Period. All the faux posturing is for the aforementioned poseurs and wannabes.



And that brings me to what I guess can be a final point for now; I am a control freak. When I keep a slave, I mandate hair, clothes, everything. Few can handle it. I am a sadist but also a realist; we love our dark fantasies, and we love making them real. But at the end of the day, we have to live and work in the real world. I never forget that and my slave has to rest sure in the comfort and trust that I keep it mind for her benefit as well..



OK, your turn. :)



And please share age and photo - I will do the same.



*** UPDATE***



As these Craig's List posts are apparently spam- and bot-magnets, should you choose to reply, please put "OH REALLY..." in the subject line. That will help me to get right to the genuine replies.



PHOTOS: I do not need to see any naked photos of anybody. I am much more interested in what's between your ears; I like to see a photo so I can put a face with your words, not so I can determine whether you are anatomiy correct. So please, just nice, normal photos with your reply. :)



*** Updated Information *** Answers to some of the most frequently asked questions: I do not smoke. I am not married. I have never been married. I have no children. I do not do drugs. I have a job. (Judging from how often this is a major question, there must have been some bad experiences out there!) I have no rules as to how much experience you must have with the so-ed "lifestyle". As long as you are honest and sincere and truly give yourself, I do not care whether you are new, or have lived it for decades. I do not care about your age as long as you are of the age of consent. Your mind and your heart have a lot more to do with whether we are suitable for each other, than whether you are 20, or 30, or 40, or whatever. Body type: I am sad that so many of you feel you have to warn me about your body type. Again, your mind and your heart will be more important. Do I care about your body type? Yes. You must have one. Which brings me to... My body type. I work out regularly. I play sports. My photos will be pleasing to you regardless of your expectations, I am sure. Lots of you ask, so there it is, for those of you too impatient to wait for the proof. :)

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